When I first read Life Together as a seminary student, I was deeply convicted about my misunderstanding of church and biblical community. More than that, I realized my own selfishness toward others in the local church and was shocked to see how I had made an idol of “doing church” in the way that I thought was best. Written by Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a pastor and theologian who stood against Hitler and the Nazi regime, this short volume urges Christians to seek not our own good but the good of others, showing us what lies at the heart of true biblical community.

If I could give one lesser-known book to my Christian Studies students or to anyone serving in ministry, it would be this one. In this short volume, Jack Miller, a wise and seasoned pastor, counsels readers on what true servant leadership looks like. Miller’s pastoral insight and personal humility result in a book that truly helps us follow the example of Christ, the Chief Servant who laid His life down for others.

I read this book with two of my best friends when it first came out, and I’m so thankful I did. Many Christians (myself included) can tend to view God not as a loving and gracious Father but as a tyrannical judge who is constantly keeping track of our sins. Yes, God’s wrath will be poured out on His enemies—on those who have not turned to Christ. But for those who have trusted in Jesus, we will never bear the wrath of God. Prior to reading Gentle and Lowly, my faith had grown somewhat cold, but reading this short book warmed my heart. Jesus, the One who is gentle and lowly, reveals the Father to us and shows the deep, abiding love the Triune God has for His children.

In this follow-up book to Delighting in the Trinity, Michael Reeves helps readers rejoice in Christ, recognizing that Jesus did not simply bring us good news—He IS the good news. As the publisher’s note explains, “[I]n an age that virtually compels us to look at ourselves, Michael Reeves calls us to look at Christ. As we focus our hearts on him, we see how he is our life, our righteousness, our holiness and our hope.”

All of us have struggles in our relationships, whether with our friends, spouses, coworkers, or other loved ones. In this thorough and practical book, Ken Sande offers godly wisdom and immensely helpful suggestions for resolving the conflicts in our relationships. Even if you feel a relationship is beyond repair, consider reading The Peacemaker for godly advice on restoring what is broken.

This is the single best book that has ever been written on the battles against pornography and lust. I greatly appreciate so much of what Joe Rigney writes, but this book is no doubt one of the most important he has ever written. If you struggle with lust and feel trapped in its grip, please read this book.